Senior Citizen Assisted Living Care Blog - Topic: Guilt surrounding the consideration of moving my parent... http://durangoseniors.org/forum/assisted-living/guilt-surrounding-the-consideration-of-moving-my-parent Simple:Press Forum Version 4.0.1 Seniors on Guilt surrounding the consideration of moving my parent... http://durangoseniors.org/forum/assisted-living/guilt-surrounding-the-consideration-of-moving-my-parent/#p8 Assisted Living http://durangoseniors.org/forum/assisted-living/guilt-surrounding-the-consideration-of-moving-my-parent/#p8 You are right, Jackie!  The exciting news is that there are three wonderful home health care agencies right here in Durango, CO.  Alpine Home Health, Mercy Home Health, and San Juan Basin Home Health are wonderful options for those seeking assistance at home. 

Home health care is a great option for those who need a little oversight and services, yet are able to remain in the home.  Assisted living facilities also work closely with home health care agencies to provide additional care.  It is a wonderful, cohesive relationship that benefits the resident tremendously! 

]]> Thu, 17 Sep 2009 11:06:48 +0000 Jackie on Guilt surrounding the consideration of moving my parent... http://durangoseniors.org/forum/assisted-living/guilt-surrounding-the-consideration-of-moving-my-parent/#p7 Assisted Living http://durangoseniors.org/forum/assisted-living/guilt-surrounding-the-consideration-of-moving-my-parent/#p7 You also have the possibility of having live-in care. Medical professionals can be sent to your house to take care of your mother, for however many hours needed. Homecare Assistance is a great live-in care facility. They have franchises all over the country. Please check them out: http://www.homecareassistance.com.


Best, 

Jackie

]]> Wed, 16 Sep 2009 12:34:02 +0000 Seniors on Guilt surrounding the consideration of moving my parent... http://durangoseniors.org/forum/assisted-living/guilt-surrounding-the-consideration-of-moving-my-parent/#p6 Assisted Living http://durangoseniors.org/forum/assisted-living/guilt-surrounding-the-consideration-of-moving-my-parent/#p6 Thanks Phil for your participation and advice.  Laugh

]]> Thu, 03 Sep 2009 12:40:18 +0000 Phil on Guilt surrounding the consideration of moving my parent... http://durangoseniors.org/forum/assisted-living/guilt-surrounding-the-consideration-of-moving-my-parent/#p5 Assisted Living http://durangoseniors.org/forum/assisted-living/guilt-surrounding-the-consideration-of-moving-my-parent/#p5 I would recommend Comforcare. They are the best caregivers in the North Carolina area. They offer http://www.homecarecharlottenc.com/">charlotte home care, http://www.homecarecharlottenc.com/">charlotte senior care and many such services. You can visit their website for additional details. I am sure they will be of immense help. Kudos!

]]> Fri, 14 Aug 2009 10:35:53 +0000 music52 on Guilt surrounding the consideration of moving my parent... http://durangoseniors.org/forum/assisted-living/guilt-surrounding-the-consideration-of-moving-my-parent/#p4 Assisted Living http://durangoseniors.org/forum/assisted-living/guilt-surrounding-the-consideration-of-moving-my-parent/#p4 Thanks Trish and Louisa for your time to respond... I gained comfort from your words!

-m. Smile

]]> Wed, 11 Mar 2009 15:13:45 +0000 louisadrouet on Guilt surrounding the consideration of moving my parent... http://durangoseniors.org/forum/assisted-living/guilt-surrounding-the-consideration-of-moving-my-parent/#p3 Assisted Living http://durangoseniors.org/forum/assisted-living/guilt-surrounding-the-consideration-of-moving-my-parent/#p3

Hi,

I am not in the position that I have to think about moving my parents into an assisted living home but if I had to I would take a great deal of time walking around the homes that we were considering and talking with any and all staff that I could. It's a very hard decision and not necessarily a fun one but something that must be considered for some people and maybe considered before it's too late... meaning a decision has to be made quickly rather than slowly and thoughtfully.


Louisa


]]> Tue, 10 Mar 2009 19:34:58 +0000 Seniors on Guilt surrounding the consideration of moving my parent... http://durangoseniors.org/forum/assisted-living/guilt-surrounding-the-consideration-of-moving-my-parent/#p2 Assisted Living http://durangoseniors.org/forum/assisted-living/guilt-surrounding-the-consideration-of-moving-my-parent/#p2 m.,

Your scenerio is all too familiar.  Many people are faced with similar situations.  Sometimes the most difficult aspect of moving a loved one into an assisted living facility is the guilt that you feel.  You must, however, weigh the risk vs reward of moving your mom.  Is she safe at home?  Do you know that she would benefit from the care and socialization at an assisted living facility?  Initially the move may be difficult, both for you and your mother; you will need to look at the big picture and understand that with time, her situation may improve substantially.  It takes a couple of weeks or even months for most residents to be comfortable with their new environment and way of living.  You may also find that your relationship with your mom is less strained and you can spend more quality time with her enjoying life rather than worrying about her health and safety. 


Hope that helps and Good Luck!


Trish 

]]> Tue, 10 Mar 2009 11:58:48 +0000 music52 on Guilt surrounding the consideration of moving my parent... http://durangoseniors.org/forum/assisted-living/guilt-surrounding-the-consideration-of-moving-my-parent/#p1 Assisted Living http://durangoseniors.org/forum/assisted-living/guilt-surrounding-the-consideration-of-moving-my-parent/#p1 I'm thinking about transferring my parent (mom) into a long term care facility, but the guilt surrounding our conversations are strong.  She is adamant about staying at home and she's attempting to make me feel like I'm abandoning her when I mention the option of moving her.  What do you do?...  Does anyone else have some opinions and experiences dealing with this?

Thanks!

m.

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